Rules are to be broken!! But not this one..
Every one of us has a rulebook that we follow every day for everything (puff!! that’s too many Every in one sentence!!).. Let me explain, in my rule book I have a rule to keep in touch with people I care about, it could be a message /mail/ phone call just to say hello. It could be different for others who does not message/call/mail (not even respond) unless it’s an emergency... it’s completely fine by their rulebook. see what I mean?? There is no right or wrong because everyone’s rulebook is different. Rulebooks are made of rules, which you think its right and you follow them without any guilt. If something doesn’t go well by your rule book, you tend to feel guilty or bad and try to fix it. Well, sometimes you don’t fix because of e-g-o. In my case, I tend to feel guilty everytime I raise my voice with A. This could be in every mum's rulebook (Maybe not!!) Basic rules in your rulebook would have been inherited/defined/Influenced from your parents/religion/...