All for Nothing
One could split their life in to two parts if you are married, life before and life after.It sounds cliche' but life do change in some way. One such thing is the pressure of having a child, you get married and tried to settle down financially first before you commit yourself to take on bigger responsibility. Child is something was not in my radar , I was not ready emotionally, physically and financially at first. We had our plans to settle down before we commit ourselves to become a parent. We wanted to make sure We build a support system in the new country we just moved in. If you live closer to your family, you have the privilege to count on them for occasional child minding. I don't have that privilege, all we could do is one of us have to quit our job to take care of the child until he or she is ready to go to day care. Pressure was on from day 1, initially you don't take'em seriously, just brush off the comments to a point after 2 yrs everyone around become