Dumb and Dumber

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When I scream, he gets stubborn,
When I plead, he ignores,
When I ground him from cricket or watching TV he questions how long!!,
When I bribe him with goodies, he bargains for more..

Nothing works..


My last weapon is to act dumb for a day..   I tried not talking to him for a day to make  him realize I'm upset..But he kept talking to me the whole day, when I didn’t respond which he didn't seem to notice at all. < It’s so hard to be upset for a day with A, within 10 mins you just want to smile and talk>. But I had to literally remind myself I’m upset with him and should not talk to him for a day.. Well, I WAS upset..  In the end, I had to literally tell him that I’m upset and I’m not talking to him.. A's response was ‘That’s ok, I can still talk to you..’ grrrrr...

It feels like Im both dumb and the dumber.. 

 Can anyone help me?? I’m running out of IDEAS..




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