All is (not) Fair
I wrote beauty and the beast when my little boy was 4yrs old, it was difficult to explain
him why we have different skin color. Now he is 6.5yrs and I think he is fairly mature
for his age. The same old question popped up recently but this time, he
had a solution.
‘Mom, I was born in Australia
and why do I still have different color?’
‘Baby, its doesn’t matter where
you were born, we are still your parents. You get what we got’.
He thought about it for a while and said ‘ Why can’t we all have same color, like everyone in this
world’.
It really melted my heart hearing him say that, in his
little mind he had a solution for unfairness. But.. Yes, there is a big
BUT…
How do I tell him that babies get killed in some parts of this world just because it’s a GIRL.
How do I tell him that there are children in this world who had to walk 5 km everyday to get a decent education?
How do I explain him that people kill each other and call it honor killing in the name of religion
How do I tell him that this world will throw unfairness at your face when you become an adult and call it Luck
How do I tell him that this world will throw unfairness at your face when you become an adult and call it Luck
How do I protect him from losing hope on this world so early? Should I just brush him off now and let the
reality sink in when the time comes?
All is not fair now, we all work our way
through. I never asked WHY? or WHY NOT ME? I just accepted the life as it came
and just lived.
I think it’s time to create healthy future like our predecessors did for us. Don’t you think?
I would love to see All is fair becomes true to a much better extent when my
little boy turns 20..
I would prepare him to face this world, treat everyone equally with kindness and respect.
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