Broken & messed up Society

 Vismaya ,24 yr old Medical (Ayurveda) student took her life few days back due to abusive relationship/dowry demands etc.,. WE as a society failed to provide a safe space for her to walk out from an abusive relationship. There are so many more Vismaya's out there right this moment, what are we doing about it? We/Society just blame the girl when she breaks a marriage and we make sure she goes down with no support even from her parents, who are afraid of what WE as a society thinks/say. If only she broke out earlier, if only the society supported the decision, if only her parents reacted to the earlier red flags without accepting 'its usual behaviour for grooms side' .. This is not normal, she went through physical abuse and still couldn't get help. This is someone's life, she shouldn't have died, she should've lived another 80yrs..we failed , we live in a messed up society that advices the girl to adjust and sacrifice, advices the girl what she is going through is nothing compared to other women, advices the girl Men will be Men and they will calm down after a while...  By doing this we are encouraging toxic behaviours and making it sound normal.This is not normal, get that person brain checked ,don't tell the girl to keep quiet. This has to stop, do we learn any thing from this. NO, this is just another news and we move on. Until we stop another Vismaya taking her life, we failed as a society.